Of late ,some men now insist their would wife MUST get pregnant before they ll agree to walk down the aisle with her ..Because of the fear of the unknown and pressure from parents etc,some people now believe its better to know the "fruitful status" of a lady before allowing their sons to marry them..Do you agree with this practice..Should a lady give in to such a request or threat if she really loves her man ?
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That's rubbish
ReplyDeleteThat's an insane thing 2 tink abt! Marriage is honourabl but †ђξ bed b undefiled.Heb chaptr 4
ReplyDeletefruitful status! Lolz that's like working tested in tokunbo electronics parlance
ReplyDeleteAn unGodly approach
ReplyDeleteThat's like going to buy clay 2 mould a pot & on getting there, you decide to make the exact mould first and if you get it right, only then will you pay for the clay.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck to ladies who consent to that.
P.s: I hope she knows that he is not exactly marrying her for love, but is buying her as a baby making machine for his legacy to go on and as his babysitter afterwards. #justsaying
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EMERGING A GIRL OF 25 YEARS HAVE SLEEP WITH MEN FOR OVER 10 YEAR AND SHE HOPING TO GET MARRIED FOR SOMEBODY. THERE IS NO TRUST IN OUR LADIES TODAY, BCOS MANY OF THEM HAVE DISTROYED THEMSELF, SO NO BODY WILL LIKE TO FALL VICTIM OF CHILDLESSNESS. ONE THING IS ANY LADY THAT IS READY TO SPOIL HER SELF, THE MEN ARE ALWAYS EVER READY FOR THAT.
ReplyDeleteThat's thrash, I'll rathar please God than man. If he goes another will surely come, where's the trust anyway?
DeleteThose against av dia points, for I am nt against. Wia z d happiness coming frm if d marriage is unfruitful. Problem knwn z problem solved......... Its not an ungodly act
ReplyDeleteD unfruitful/unsure ladies will b against cos they're not sure if they cn take in. Hw cn 1 spnd @least #1m & later she packing her load bk to her parents' house happily putting on d ring bcos of childlessness. @least there shld b evidence.
ReplyDeleteChildren is added joy n spices to marriage n ordained of GoD.Y walk in disobedience to Godz instructn by trying out Godz work becos it s God who gives d fruit of d womb. Cases abound where pple FORNICATE in d name of testing for fruitfulnez n d child ended dying afterward n in another instance no issue came after d marriage so are u God? Go marry her for love undiluted as long as u trust d relatnship n are openly sincere to each other. IT IS. WRONG TO TEST as a CHRISTIAN WHO FEARS n LOVE God not a churh goer o
ReplyDeleteIn or out;that's all.
ReplyDeleteMy pple,she most take in first and 4get all dis plenty plenty talk or argument ok bcuz many girls of nowadays nor trust themselves;after plenty runs and abortion.May GOD not let fall victim oooooooh"AMEN"
ReplyDeleteWhy re we attributing d problem of infertility to women alone when it can also be d cause of d man not being able to impregnate his wife due to his low sperm count e.t.c. If thatis d case that will ve to sleep with hundreds of woman nd yet will not be able to make children.
ReplyDeleteSecondly! What if u had d pregnancy nd loose it after marriage nd could not ve anoda one again, God is not mocked. No one can outsmart God or go against His laid down principles nd succeed. It might workfor some but it can not work same way with everybody, don't let us take His d Grace for granted.It is well.
This days ladies can't be trusted. Imagine a runs girl turning born again. Who knows how many babies she's aborted. If you aint sure of a lady, pls get her pregnant first before tying the knot. But if u know her well to trust in God for you and her together, then she worth the risk. Am getting married soon, yet I have not touched my fiance. The choice is left for them to make.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, Josh. True talk nd gud advise u gave dem now he who has ear let him hear their not God, what if d baby die or the woman did not take_in again after d marriage what will u do? U divorce ur wife or...
ReplyDeleteAll u talk is rubbish,u the guys who slips with all d girls in the world, den u get dem pregnant & ask dem 2 abort it...u suddenly 4get abt all d children u forced her to abort.now u want to get married and ure lookin for fruitful status first? God punish dem all.
ReplyDeleteIts true God commanded marriage b4 children, but did he commanded sex b4 marriage? Den we dat av sex early already disobeyed him or u didn't knw?
ReplyDeleteƔε̲̣̣̣̥§ we're all aware of bible and marriage doctrines but,ladies imagine your self as a mother with no grandchildren.
ReplyDeletePls blame no body cos life'let everybody do it d way dt pls individual
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